Coaching with Charles

If you want something different, you're going to need to DO something different.


I've been working with women and men all over the world for over 20 years, and my goal has always been the same: to give intelligent, motivated people the perspective and tools they need to create the relationships they want and deserve. I serve as a guide to reveal, acknowledge, and discard the behaviors and influences that are blocking you from getting what you want from life and love.

Sometimes, what's blocking you is your past experience in relationships or with your family of origin. It might be the perception you have of yourself, with negative internal dialogue playing in your head—defeating you even before you start. Or it might be damaging patterns of self-sabotage based on years of spending too much time with people who didn't deserve you in the first place.

We all have some version of these blocks. What's needed is a no bullshit approach to love advice, and an informed, educated perspective that helps you work through the issues.

And that's what I do.

Coaching with me shines a light on the things—big and small—that are blocking you from getting what you want in life and love. Together, we will look at through at things through a lens of acceptance and honesty.

ACCEPTANCE of what's happened so far, without denying things or smoothing them out.

HONESTY so you can see things for what they actually are, and make changes that drastically improve your love life.

Together, we'll uncover what’s holding you back, what's sabotaging you, and what's defeating you, and you move forward with hope, awareness, confidence, and a centered approach to life and love. 

And the end of our time together. you will:

  • Improve your self-esteem
  • Raise your confidence level
  • Know what you're looking for—and deserve—in a relationship
  • Have a deep understanding of what's been blocking you from getting the life and love you want
  • Identify the early warning signs of a wrong partner
  • Understand what it takes to find and maintain a happy, healthy relationship
  • Have a concise, personalized roadmap for a love life filled with joy

And if you're thinking: "Yup. Sounds good. But that doesn't happen for people like me."

You are completely wrong.

It DOES happen.

Just because it hasn't happened for you yet isn't a reflection of your worthiness.

It means you haven't been following the right path.

Why should you work with me? Keep reading.


"Who do you work with?"

I work with women and men who are smart, insightful, and willing to learn. My clients are prepared to hear the harsh truth from me, because they know that what they've been doing hasn't worked, and they want to make a change for the better. They might be in a current relationship that isn't working well, or are recently divorced after a long-term relationships and trying to get back into the dating scene, or are just entering the world of love after a break.

  • 25% of my clients are 21-34
  • 50% of my clients are 35-50
  • 15% of my clients are 51-64
  • 10% are seniors 65 and up

Bottom line: I've been working thousands of people just like you for a number of years... and I can help.

"Do you only work with women?"

While the majority of my clients are women, many men are looking for perspective on why they aren't successful in love. But regardless of gender, most are looking for the same things:

  • They want to understand where they are going wrong in dating, love and relationships — and they want to change it.
  • They want to release their damaged past and move forward.
  • They want to be happy in life and love.

"How long will I work with you?

There's no magic spell that can change things; coaching and guidance are a process. My coaching methodologies require a 10-week commitment, but you'll see and feel results within the first few weeks.

"What if I just need one session with you?"

I don't work that way. There's no such thing as a quick-fix—especially when it comes to damaging patterns and behaviors. None of my clients got into their personal dilemmas in an hour, so it's not realistic to think you can "fix it" in a 50-minute session. 

Whomever tells you differently is lying, pure and simple.

Does that mean it takes years to fix things? HELL no! But, we have to team up and get in there to figure out where your head and heart are misaligned. We spend the time to set things straight so you stop making the same mistakes over and over.

"Sounds great. So where do we start?"

That depends on you and where you're at in your love life.

  • If you're unhappy in your relationship, I'll help you see things in a different way and take control of your situation.
  • If you are new to the dating scene after a long-term relationship or divorce, I'll coach you on proven strategies to finding quality people — even acting as your virtual wingman as you evaluate potentials.
  • If you are in a repeated pattern of finding the wrong partners over and over again, I'll assist you in breaking the cycle.
  • If you are plagued with trust issues and are sabotaging your chances at a great love life, I'll teach you how you can let go of your past. 
  • If you are constantly friend-zoned or ghosted on, I'll guide you to a better partner selection process.

What you are going through has been experienced by many people, and I've worked with and number of them before you. The fact that you are reading this is proof that you want to change your life direction.

You have more power than you realize, and now is the time to take control of your own love life.

By learning new skills and releasing bad patterns, you are going to be able to make healthy decisions for your love life that will change the way you experience all relationships. 

Ready to make a change? Sweet. 

Group or Private... it's your choice. Either way, you'll get my straight-up, no-bullshit approach to advice.

Success Stories

"I am 51 yrs old and searched high and low for the right book or site for spot on advice. Charles, you never ceases to amaze me with your honesty, wisdom, and courage to cut through the bullshit. Keep up the good work Charles! You change lives!"   —Kimberlee P.

 

"I just wanted to say THANK YOU! I came out of a bad relationship 7 months ago (with two children) and now I know it was never really *all* my fault that it ended. I'm now in a new relationship I know what I should expect and what I shouldn’t accept."   —Samantha B

 
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"Charles, I just wanted to tell you thank you. I was in an AWFUL marriage that drained me of my spirit and lust for life. He was emotionally oppressive and a pathological liar. Since I freed myself of that situation and learned to be myself again I have found that life, and romance are enjoyable again. I've lost 62 lbs, got a home of my own and am always putting my daughter and myself first in my life instead of last. I'm also seeing a wonderful gentleman who encourages me to do these things. Your words have helped immensely. From the bottom of my heart, thank you."  —Ashley C.

 
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"I just wanted to let you know that the man we spoke about is now in my past. It hasn't been easy, but I know it was necessary. Thank you for giving me the skills to look at bad situations from a helpful perspective. You've been my inspiration to get through this." —Elise F.


Group Coaching

YOU ARE WORTHY

YOU ARE WORTHY is a one-of-a-kind group coaching program based on over 15 years of real-world research and thousands of interactions and sessions with people around the world. Gain critical perspective and learn the techniques you need to make sweeping, positive changes in life and love

During this 5-week intensive, you'll work directly with me in an online group setting—via live video stream—and address the issues that are blocking you from getting the life and love you want — your past, self-worth, confidence, self-esteem, partner selection, damaging patterns, denial, and much more — for less than $5/day.


Private Coaching

Love Mastery

If you want the opportunity to work with me one-on-one...

If you're ready to put in the work that will yield the greatest possible results…

If you want to have the life and relationship that you've only wish for until now...

Let's do it.