Trying to figure out if he's a jerk or just misunderstood? Here’s the deal.
Telltale Sign #1 - You start wondering why he's acting like an asshole.
Maybe he refers to women as "bitches" or "hoes" in front of you. Or perhaps he didn’t call after your first date, even though he gave off all the signs that he was really into you.
Telltale Sign #2 - You go to bed thinking he’s an asshole.
He might leave you wondering if he cares about you… or just wants your vagina. It might be hard to tell, especially when the only time he calls is at 1:30am after a night at the club.
Telltale Sign #3 - You're drinking your coffee in the morning and think, “Yeah… he’s an asshole.”
When you go out, he treats service personnel like they are his personal slaves. And the conversation over dinner is usually about how his ex was a total bitch for no reason at all.
Telltale Sign #4 – A friend calls you and asks how things are. Your response: “He’s an asshole.”
He might even have you convinced that you’re the asshole… that he treats you like shit because you — like all assholes — need to be treated as such. Creating doubt and causing you to think you are the problem is what assholes do.
Bottom line: If you think he’s an asshole, then you already know what to do. The fact that you opened and are reading this article shows that you don’t want to believe it, and that you are looking for some kind of external validation to make your decision. So, if you're looking for a sign... this is it. And more importantly: Every time you stay with the WRONG guy... you are automatically NOT selecting the RIGHT guy by default. My question: Why stay where you're not valued?