Over these years, I've helped thousands of people find their best self.

I've helped them realize that they are worthy of a quality person.

Their self-esteem and confidence is now out there for everyone to see.

They have looked at their past, embraced it, and take continuing steps to release what they cannot control.

They have moved forward to a life of happiness, promise, and joy,


I am 51 yrs old, and I’ve searched high and low for the right coach with REAL advice. Charles J. Orlando NEVER ceases to amaze me with his honesty, wisdom, and courage to cut through the bullshit. Keep up the good work Charles! You change lives every day!
— Kimberlee P.

If you're anything like me or the clients I've worked with,

your life is filled with a combination of highs and lows.


There have been times where you are so happy, only to come crashing down when things didn't work out the way you planned.

That roller coaster of emotion probably started convincing you that you aren't worthy.

That you needed to be a different person to find love.

You need to change to be happy.

That there is something wrong with you.



There is nothing wrong with you.

We are all on a path of change... perhaps even self-improvement.

But YOU aren't broken or flawed because you haven't found a happy relationship yet.

What's broken is your selection process.

What's missing is facing the patterns, behaviors that are blocking you.

What's screwed up are your senses of self-worth and self-esteem.

And guess what?

All that can be corrected.


Embrace your damaging patterns.

Shift your mindset.

Revamp your self-worth.

If you do, you will find a happy, healthy relationship... starting within yourself.


By being honest and accepting your past damaging behaviors, you can make positive changes VERY quickly.

Thousands of men and women who have followed my advice have found happiness.

They've done the work and made fundamental changes in how they approach life and love.

They've examined their past.

They've proactively stopped their negativity.

They've identified and killed off their bad patterns.

They've refound their self-worth.

They've recreated their confidence.

They've discovered their powerful voice.

They've moved forward to a life of joy... of peace... of happiness.


So what's the secret?

What did I tell them that changed their lives for good?

What made it possible for these defeated, negative women and men to reinvent their love lives?


It all starts with a simple approach to changing your outlook on life and love.





Move forward.


It's not about living in your past.

That's a setup for failure.

It's about accepting what's happened... so you can move past it.

It's about evaluating what worked and what didn't... so you can make changes.

It's about growing as an individual and as a partner... so you are ready to share with another person.


In other words, I operate from a place of learning, acceptanceacknowledgement, reality, and harsh truth.

And as you can see, most of what I've been sharing with you has to do with how you approach life, not how to find a partner or rewrite your dating profile.

Because finding the right person is more about finding YOU than them.

That's the shift; it's starts with you.

(Anyone who tries to tell you different is full of it.