Valuing yourself means...

...that you start making decisions and doing things that are valuable to you.

...that you take charge of your destiny.

...that you do things that promote your own growth.

...that you work through and release your past

...that you put what's important to you first.

...that you kill off the patterns that have been blocking you at every turn and you start doing something different.

If you keep doing what you're doing, you will get the same results. It's time for change.

It's YOUR time.

But change isn't easy.

Shifting your mindset isn't straightforward.

Undoing years of damaging patterns and behaviors isn't something that most people can do on their own.

Otherwise, you would have already done it.

Sure, you can continue to try change things on your own...

If you're still dating,  I'm going to reveal to you the best place to meet quality singles in just a second.

But let me ask you...

But even if you meet that special someone...
are you really ready for them today?

Is your past going to creep in?

Are you stuck in a negative place due to old relationships?

Is your confidence and self-esteem ready for a totally-together partner?

Have you worked through damaging patterns that keep blocking you?


You're still here, and you're still reading.

So I would venture that you're on an awesome path of self-improvement and discovery!

But you need a guide.

We all need one at different times in our lives.

Someone to help us see what we can't, because we are IN the situation.

Someone to call out what we are doing that's stopping us from getting what we want. 

Someone who will call it as it is, not now we wish it was.

Someone with the knowledge, research, and experience that can help make positive changes that STICK! 

A guide who can navigate tough waters. I've been there... in your shoes... and I've worked with others who have been in your situation.


And this is why I work with women and men around the world.

I serve as their guide...

To help them see what they can't see.

To undo years of patterns that kill their chances for happiness.

To assist them in working through their troubled past relationships.

To stop their self-sabotaging behavior.

To help them create balance between what they feel and what they think.

To encourage them to do what they've never done.

To help them embrace a new way of thinking.

To drive them toward what they say they want in life and love.

To give them control of their own happiness.



And the best part for me: IT WORKS!

(I can't tell you how rewarding it is for me to help others find their happiness.)

Charles — THANK YOU! I came out of a bad relationship (with two children) and working with you changed everything about my approach to love. It was never really *all* my fault that it ended, I just never knew that before. But I know what I did and how my bad patterns contributed. I’m now in a new relationship, and I’m happy! I know what I should expect and what I shouldn’t accept.
— Samantha B.

Give me 20 weeks and I will completely change your outlook on life and love.

You'll let go of your negative behaviors and completely shift your thinking... about yourself.

You'll accept things from your past that you wouldn't or couldn't face... and be okay with it.

You'll move on to a place of confidence and high-self-esteem... without changing who you are or what you want from life.


(And if you're dating, you'll be ready for that right person without looking for them to complete you...
because you will just WANT them to be with you... not NEED them to be with you.)


But if you still believe you're all set and can go it alone...

I want to tell all of you still dating where you can meet the best singles. 

Because hunting at the produce aisle at the grocery store is a crapshoot.

And clubs and bars... well... oy!

Online dating? Tinder? Speed dating?  (bring a blindfold to protect yourself from all the dick pics) 

Here's my suggestion for you daters out there:

If you are single-and-looking, my recommendation is to sign up for a class in your community.

Specifically a singles' cooking class or a singles' dance class.
(Google "singles cooking class." You'll find them.)

Interactive classes like these provide a great environment. Here's why:

  • Everyone is there to learn something new... which means they are bettering themselves, and that is the type of person you want to attract.
  • Everyone starts even. No one knows more than the other, so unless someone is secretly a ringer... there's no unfair advantage, no one puts anyone down, and everyone is in a positive place. 
  • You get to experience raw relationship dynamics. In active classes (like cooking, dancing, and others), people are often paired up. You can see how they handle mistakes, what their ego and confidence level are like, how they deal with learning new things, how they handle insecurity, and if they are comfortable allowing you your own space to do your thing. And while there is no guarantee that you will be partnered with someone of the opposite sex, you will see others—and interact with them. 

If you take this path, please know that I'm wishing you the best of luck!

For the rest of you who want to make lasting change in your relationships and in yourselves...