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Love has a tendency of sweeping many people off their feet. However, with that rush of emotion, physical attraction, and "connection", red flags can get overlooked. The result is a broken heart, and a misguided thought that they "did something wrong". Many times, the tell-tale signs show themselves early in the dating process... if you are paying close attention.
Let's get real. No nonsense, denial or pretending.
Credit card statements and hotel keys left on the dresser... but what if they are more sneaky than that? I asked 50 cheating men what they did. They got honest. Here are the 10 behavioral identifiers of people who cheat.
"I met this guy and we had a GREAT time on our first few dates. Then, he vanished! No calls. No texts. Nothing! I was so confused!! What gives with this guy? Was he just bullsh*t? How can I see the signs of this in the future?"
This is not a feel-good article. This is a rant; a fast and furious reality check.
Women who get played by men aren't "dumb" or "inexperienced". Smart women get played all the time… and not because the guy is bright or smooth... but because his bullsh*t story has enough tangible possibility for it to be believable. Moreover, these "guy players" aren't useless men... they watch and wait — predators of a sort — and fill a specific need that a woman is looking for. And not just any need…
1,000 men and women surveyed... two things became clear: 1) Women cheat just as much as men (dispelling the myth that men cheat more); and 2) The reasons the genders cheat are very different.