If you're unhappy and/or frustrated in your relationship, you want things to change. You want to make things better. You want to understand why they treat you badly, why they cheated, why they left, why they don't make time for you, why they don't value you, why you are miserable in your relationship, and you really want to understand why the hell you put up with it. Here's the deal, and I'm going to give it to you straight.